oh Amba, I'm so sorry that things have gone from bad to worse. This must all be so overwhelming to you right now. So terrible. I know that you know in your heart that your daughter does not dislike you. Well she may dislike your evil meat-eating ways, but I'm sure that she can see how supportive you have been of her always. And holy crap, did she ask you to keep your conversation private? Why oh why would she be so angry that you told her sister the reason she is not coming for Christmas? Maybe therapy would help the lot of you, you poor woman.

I am sure no vet, but maybe it would be good to let H know that you will do what you can to contribute financially. A divorce is going to cost you guys a fortune, maybe a property settlement would be better. But if you sell your home, where will you guys live?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17