This is the response from H. to the response I finally sent:
As I said, I don't know why you think my xxx email is blocked to you.
Christmas for the girls will be pretty bare this year. Both of them had issues with their cars last week. 700 for daughter #1 and 500 for daughter #2. I told both of them..... That's Christmas. I do plan on getting AAA memberships for both girls as well. I will make sure they know that everything comes from both of us.
Every 2 weeks 3000 gets put in the xxx account. The mortgage is about 3000. I keep planning on paying but... Cell phones, heat, living expenses, school etc. something seems to always come up that leaves less than 3k to make the payment. There is about 8,000 left in my IRA which I could pull.... It creates a tax bill that I will have to deal with eventually and when it's gone.... There is no safety net.
I think the best thing is to initiate a sale. Even if it ends up a short sale. Drag out the process while trying to bank something from the $$ every two weeks
Again, I hate doing this during the holidays but I really feel I need to NOT give you false hopes.
