In the first Christmas after my personal BD, I was still very sad but I knew I wanted to do things a bit differently, change things up a bit.
Reading this I realize that this is exactly what I have been doing and it makes me feel good. It makes Christmas move from something lost into something new – and it works. I have changed routines, menu, decorations…changed a lot and made the children part of it and part of the decisions. I feel like it is our Christmas and I feel great about it!
I will use this on other holidays, birthdays and likewise in the time to come
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
