Give it a rest for a few days.

You did answer the question and I appreciate that. This is hard stuff, been there, done that.

It's good to hear that you think your W is very good at her job. Have you ever told her that? This might not be the right time but just think about if you let her know you appreciated her.

I've worked FT, I've been a SAHM and I've worked PT when the kids were young. The hardest job was SAHM because there's no clock to punch, it's 24/7 and you don't get raises or great performance reviews, even if your performance merits it.

The most difficult thing about this is if you want to have a chance to save your M, you have to do all the work right now.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss