Wife mentioned a couple of weeks ago about me picking our son up on Christmas day after dinner. At the weekend she confirmed that 3pm would be the time I should pick him up, have him overnight and drop him off next day at 3pm.

When thinking about it last night and the reality of it set in I felt that it was disappointing to not see him at all during the morning of Christmas day, it seems a long time to wait until 3pm and that most of the day will be gone.

Considering they are only living at wife's parents 2 minutes down the road I asked the question today if there was a way for me to see him for maybe an hour in the morning and then drop him back off for his dinner & then collect him later as planned.

My wife agreed that would be OK.

Then a few hours later she sent me a text message saying it wouldn't be fair on our son to be going backwards & forwards all day & we are sticking to original plan. This coincided with the time her mum & dad get in from work, coincidence?

When I text her to ask why the change, she is now just completely ignoring all text messages & will not answer her phone.

This is so infuriating. How can I not rise to this kind of behaviour.

I ended up bombarding her with 3 or 4 text messages and attempted to call her 3 or 4 times, all just ignored.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014