I found out today that my wife cleared out several of her certificates and diplomas from the safe. I can't tell what else is missing. I called her about it and she's seems 'matter of fact". In my mind this was/is a temporary time apart to cool off and see what can be done. Its starting to seem otherwise. She never said she wanted a divorce. She said we needed time apart so she could think and get healthy again. Feeling awful....now what?


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14