Reaching out for support and advice!!

[juliegayle]

When I read your posts I think we are married to the same man. Word for word. I guess that is why they call it a script.

I am sorry you are hurting so much now. The holidays have a way of making eeverything more intense. Labug is right that the pain won't stop if you file. Yiu need to do what is right for you but be sure to sit with your decision before taking an actions.

As I mentioned my H says a lot of the same stuff and the words really hurt. I am still living a fake it till I make it life. He will say something like "can't wait till I never have to see you again "(hello we have a kid)... anyway I will shrug it off and then keep telling myself that his words won't break me. Hopefully with time I will just feel that right away.

My H has completely deluded himself into thinking the kids are not being affected. So I am throwing myself into making the holidays fun and as normal as possible. In the process I find that I am really having fun.

Again as wise Labug said. ..you cant expect much fun from him (Bad paraphrase) so do what you can to not let him stand in your way of enjoyment.