Why is it people only see the option in a marriage when there are issues is to walk out?

Man, I wish we had the power to change this dynamic!

Where DID my magic wand go?

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.