TS, I couldn't agree with you more! It is sooo extremely hard when you live with your WAS. I dont know about you, but it feels like I'm living with a stranger, I ask myself who is this women, and what did she do with my Wife. I ask how the heck is she just DONE, completely DONE, WTF.
I have been DB'ing my ass off, and I can honestly say she is still done. I dont want to believe it, but I can feel it. I try to put on a positive face, I try to act happy, I am detaching, and GAL, but it is still so hard and very exhausting. Some days Im really good and Other days Im a mess, but when Im around her Im strong, kind, patient and confident. You know, I dont think we will ever figure how or what the WAS is truly feeling, and I suggest we stop trying.
FlyOnTheWall's 2 cents is 120% correct in my opinion. I would have thought he wrote that just for me and my situation. I would suggest reading his 2 cents post over and over again. I know im going to.
