I agree with NQ You don't want to let anyone know that you're planning to move. However, saying that it depends how badly your H wants to see his sons. When H left me the first time, I was already for upping sticks and moving house. H said afterwards he's glad I didn't as he would have missed his son. Glad work went ok Enjoy the holidays
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You don't want to let anyone know that you're planning to move. However, saying that it depends how badly your H wants to see his sons. When H left me the first time, I was already for upping sticks and moving house. H said afterwards he's glad I didn't as he would have missed his son.