Finding nuggets of gold on this Great Big Hill

[Pudmuddle]

Heather, thank you so much. That is an awesome resource to have handy and read and reread many times. I remember reading this early on and forgot about it, so thank you for the reminder. Hugs back at you and you are a totally sweet person.

job, I CAN'T tolerate him living at home, lol, which is why I have asked him many times to move out, but he stays put. Supposedly for our S, so he says. I even told my son I might do this some day and S actually seemed ok with it! that surprised me.

Thanks for reminding me yet again to sit patiently and wait. I don't know how you stay so friendly while saying the same things over and over. You are the best job.

I am visiting his side of the family on Christmas, which they all love me, so it will be good. I can do this. as uR says Choose Happy. And fake it til you get there.