Clairvoyance? I really don't know how much that I actually have. what I try to do is give advice based on my judgment.
I have developed this judgment from experience. My experience comes from bad judgment. Trust me when I tell you that I have made the same mistakes so many of us have made in the past.
I learned not to respond to my W's script. It serves no purpose to react to it because typically the reaction to the scripts is negative. Telling them that "I am sorry that you feel this way" is a way that helps us detach from our emotions.
I think that if you started taking this approach it is going to show her something different. Like our good buddy Mach 1 always says, "So, how's that working for ya?"
I think that the time has come for you to start taking a different approach.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
