Wife Said She's Done

[OneDay]

Honestly Im just trying to justify in my mind that this is not all my fault. Yes the drinking was the main reason for her wanting a D. I have been really hard on myself and thought that I was 100% of the reason for my WAW wanting a D. Now I know thats not the case.

labug, I dont really know how to answer, but I'll try.

I agree those things were good as a whole and I didnt mind "helping out" (wrong choice of words I guess) I did not mind doing these things as 1 they needed to be done and we worked as a team to accomplish them and 2 I knew if I busted my butt to get the chores done, that W and I would have sometime to spend together. Which I liked.

As for the business of the home. I think we were a good team. I worked Full Time and she was basically a stay at home mom (and a really good one) She would take and pick the boys up from school. She volunteered at school, and did the boys homework with them everyday, I would help with math in the evening. All the other responsibilities we split. I loved the fact that my W was always there for the boys. Now, If she worked full time, the roles would have been reversed and I would have been mr.mom. She knew it and I knew it and we were both fine with that.

I dont know where im going here, or if I even answered the question. This is really tough and the past 2 days have been really rough for me.