yes, most likely the standard will be written in although not necessarily followed. H is not going to give that much time to kids and neither will kids want it. we had a talk with boys in feb of 12 after h had gone back home and then left again. I told h he owed the boys an explanation. h took it upon himself to tell boys he had been unfaithful. My one friend here is in exact same sit-kids all same age, youngest more severily handicapped than my child. My other friend, her xh works at same co as my h. They travel 3 weeks out of the month. We've all been Stay at home moms. The situation is similar in that our h's never had to grocery shop,fix dinner, do laundry, do hw, dr visits. You know the list goes on and on....
I will say, I am starting(I think) after being at this 19 months since bday, to be a little better with this new normal. I am taking care of me.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
