We are still married but she wants divorce and is having an affair. I should not send money. I can't do it.
As far as paperwork and little things she wants from the house idk. Part of me says cooperate for now, the other says do not do anything she asks.
I haven't replied to her message from two days ago about wanting money and things and I don't plan to. I'm trying to go dark. She wants a divorce, knows how I feel, having affair, abandoned me and everything here. She needs to know what it'll be like without me. Correct?
Still want to pack her belongings and put in storage. I think it'll make a difference for me to heal some. If any contact with her I'll let her know her things are in storage and I believe she took the paperwork she's asking for (l can't find it). At some point I'll have to change insurance policies too and let her know.
I know this process isn't pretty but I don't want things to be ugly. There's no reason to argue. If she gets vindictive or vengeful then I'll have to stay calm and work through it.
