You definitely don't want anyone knowing about your plans to return to your home state until much, much closer to the actual move, especially in-laws. You've got loads of time to save up and who knows, things may have changed completely in 9 years time and you may have other plans.

Glad your shift went fast. It's not good when a work day drags out because you're not busy.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks