uR, Your pearls of wisdom on this thread are absolutely priceless. Each and every posting here is full of helpful information and I do hope that the posters will print the postings off and pull them out whenever they are feeling confused, lost, hurt and/or disappointed.
Life goes on and so will you. It may take a while to feel better about yourself and your situation...but always remember...you didn't cause his/her crisis. The crisis was going to happen whether he/she was w/you or not.
All of you are good, kind, caring and compassionate people...please do not ever forget that.
I do hope that each of you will find some joy this holiday season and can find a way to leave the MLC monster outside your home.
Happy Holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.