Keep up the good work JF. And for W's information it has not been over night, its been over 5 months to work on change. People throw rocks at things that shine buddy, and that's what W is doing to you. If she wants out so bad, I'm sure she can find the door thru all the fog if she tried.

Tough stuff to hear from her for sure, but sounds like you did a great job in handling all that. Just make Christmas for you S's as enjoyable as possible. Let her sit there and be miserable.


separated since 9/01/13
M-31
W-36
D-4
Move back home 12/26/13
3 months of tough times
Finally in a happy M