Planning ahead possibly. My W was seen at the local mall the other night with a man by my niece. Not sure who he was but I have an idea. She has not said anything to me so she may not know that she was seen.
Do I play it cool because even though we are now under the same we are still separated. We have been getting along since that first night back but we have some work to do. My 180's are working I believe. Not saying much but my actions are speaking for me.
What do I do if she decides to tell me about it? I have no concrete proof of any wrongdoing. It wont be a deal breaker but I also don't want her to think I am ok with it. I am far enough along in my IMC that I think I can handle this in calm and rational way. I just need advice on what to say and how to say it.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
