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He says he would like to move back in. I asked him why and he said that he would like to work on things while living here because it would be easier for us to work on things if he is in the house. He is not 100% sure about us right now. Although he did say that he was 100% committed to working on our relationship and that he wasn't before. (he is talking about in the spring when we did marriage counseling the first time around).

I explained to H what the significance of his moving back in would mean to me. It would mean that he was certain about things, and that I would want to know that he wouldn't be moving back out again.

I told him it was a big deal to me. I told him that I don't even know if he loves me. He then told me that yes, he does love me. He said he wasn't sure about it before. I asked if it would be weird if I told him that I loved him once in a while. He says it might be awkward because he feels it would be awkward to respond to it at this point. I think everything feels so strange for him right now.

So, my question. He loves me and is 100% committed to working on things. However there is still uncertainty about us working out, although his heart seems to really be in it. His living apart from me is taking a toll on me and I don't think it has been helping matters. Now I have to decide whether we are going to do this living together or apart.