I didn't say you were/are a lazy husband only asked if you would do anything differently knowing what you know now.
Maybe you wouldn't.
Do you notice how you used the phrase "helping out" when talking about activities that seem to be for the good of the family as a whole? How do you really view those things? How was the business of the family/household handled? Who was responsible for what?
I know you and I had a similar discussion earlier about picking up your children
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They're your kids too I'm assuming.
I'm still not clear on why you don't want to pick them up other than you're pi$$ed at her. Your kids have no part in that.
It sounds as if everything in their lives is up to W.
Maybe you should have a talk with W and say "I want to do my share with the kids. Let's talk about our schedules for the next week and we can plan who will do what. I'm uncomfortable when I have to make changes in my schedule the night before." or whatever your comfort level is.
Would this be a 180 for you?
How do you honestly see your W's role in the family?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
