Thanks guys, I really need contact...I just found out a boat load of cow manure:

Holy cow, I know now why he can't face me...I've been digging through a ton of bills and paperwork.

The debt on Fed taxes is over a hundred grand. Add to that there is a lien on the house, and he has had his paychecks garnished. When he said I had no idea ...uh he is right! OMG. I don't know what the Hell is going to happen. There is defin. a pattern over the years, and it has just caught up to him and blown up in his face. Not only is his credit shot, but mine. He has defaulted on older daughter's loan, so her credit is shot. And I just found hospital bills in my other daughter's name, which are not paid! So at 21 her credit is shot! My God...I sure hope an attorney can fix this for her, since she had no idea.
I'm going to let her know AFTER Christmas, this just [censored]. When he said he's been living a double life...now I get it. I'm just blown away. That is just what I found, who knows whatever else is out there!

No wonder he wants to run away. I sure hope he doesn't do something to himself, this is stress that has to be body and soul blowing. He has guns, hopefully he left them at his friend's house in VA.

With Christmas and all of this, I'm really scared for him.

Yeah, I'm scared for me too, but there is nothing I can do presently. This is HUGE, MERRY CHRISTMAS !

This just keeps getting worse and worse. I'm afraid to even think about tomorrow.

I looked up the snow thrower, it's going out on the porch tonight with a huge for sale sign on it! He paid over 1200. for it and it was only used about five times. Sheesh.


Formerly Workinprogress
H :55
M :over 29 yrs.
Together : 33
D : college
D : adult
BD and left : May 2013
Separated
Experimenting/Replay

Jan 2014...Let go of rope!


God grant me the serenity...