Hi 3, I can empathize. I have gone through some phases like this, too. It seems I am either putting my H on a pedestal, or I am thinking about every last thing that I can't stand about him. I think the reality is somewhere in between. I agree with bug, you may feel like this for a while, or maybe not. I think it is good to remember that your H is not perfect - we tend to forget that because we focus so much on our own flaws, so our WASs end up on a pedestal.
On another note, I don't think that you need to accept being treated poorly. Why not tell him that the comment was hurtful and uncalled for? (In the nicest way possible.) Or ask him what he is feeling that made him say something like that?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
