I honestly can not resist the urge to phone, text or email my wife when I have something I want to say & get off my chest.
I can sometimes go 2, 3 or even 4 weeks with limited contact, just been friendly and confident, applying the DB principles, but eventually I get something in my head that I feel I want to say/express, I resist for maybe a day or 2 then eventually I phone, text or email.
Yes you can. It's a choice you make, and you are telling yourself that you can't control it in order to justify doing it.
If contacting her is hurting you or your sitch, the excuse for doing it doesn't really matter, does it?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
