CC, so sorry about the news. Just don’t let this get into your head. Maybe he is just exploring and it is not serious. I picture my H going out with old friends, and it doesn’t go anywhere after that. I don’t think a quality woman would want to date a married man who is not D’d yet. I would not.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state