I know our past relationship is done. I know she's having an affair. OM will be moving to her city this week. She's still wanting divorce. It's accepting all of that and letting it go.
I do want to be with my W again. If we are I know it'll be a lot work to deal with these issues and solving our old ones.
I wanted to put her things in storage. I've considered moving myself. I just don't know. I'm trying to be patient. She may never want to be together again.
Our friend told me yesterday: She's been gone just over 5 weeks. She hasn't worked on herself, it's been all about having fun and OM, she still hasn't gone to the dentist, still no ID, she asks me to send paperwork but is capable of getting things done herself, she says she's broke but can go out, she been there long enough to be miserable and done it to herself.
