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Labug and Ambivalent, hopefully you can provide me with some input on this one.

I have taken into consideration your thoughts regarding H's moving back in. My initial reaction was that of course I would love for him to move back in, because I miss him! But after thinking long and hard I am more hesitant.

I am on the receiving end of being abandoned by someone, so for me his moving back in feels very significant. I want for it to be for the right reasons. How do I express to him my concerns? I feel that if he were to move back in I would like for it to be permanent, and for him to feel confident in his feelings for me. I want it to mean 'for better or worse' we will work on things as a team, and work through any issues. He hasn't told me he loved me since before February. Is that reason enough for him to not move in?

What I DON'T want is for him to move back in, merely because things feel comfortable and he is having fun and doesn't want to stay at his brothers anymore.

P.S. I have started reading the book! It makes a lot of sense. There was a part where the husband and wife were arguing about the wife being cold. H and I have had that exact argument over and over again where I say I am cold and he replies with, "You can't be cold. The theromostat is set at 24!" hehe.