Divorce on the table, Hoping for miracle

[Groov]

Update,

OM's "best friends" Wife contacted me and wanted to meet f2f. We talked and she wanted to identify the "elephant in the room". Basically she wanted to let me know that she believes that her H is having an Affair with my W. She then goes on to tell me that "My Friend" has previous infidelities. She is stuck in the anger of things and does not want to work it out with her H. She informed me that she is going to go to our eclesiastical leaders and inform them.

I mostly listened and told her that I didn't want to be involved. I said that I have hopes of Reconciliation at some future time. I told her not to involve me in the "tattling" for a better word. I hope she keeps me out of it. The last thing I want is to be perceived as someone out for vengence or revenge. I think I made a mistake on telling her about what I knew of the situation (text message records) I was adimant that I did not want it out there that I pulled the records. If confronted... I will most likely say that I am focusing on the bettering myself, getting closer to the Lord and being a better father.

The funny thing is a part of me wants her to go to the church leaders and get it all out there. I just don't want it to come from me. The last time my W woke up from her EA was when a church leader threatened church disipline.

For me though, I am just going to make Groov the best human he can be. Stay out of it. I am not going to be communicating with OM's W. This is too much a temptation to get sucked into what their going through.

Advise welcome

Groov