Me 14 months on, affair confirmed, someone new?

[hotwheelsaust]

Thanks everyone, it really makes me happy to know my fellow DBer's support me on this.
Not rushing into anything at all. If anything the DB stuff over the last 14 months makes a huge difference with how to move ahead in a possible relationship. If this new lady doesn't want to go out today or tomorrow etc, then the self esteem doesn't kick on and make you feel let down or not wanted. Acceptance of another person doing something without you is so much easy to handle.
This lady has kids and has just started two weeks holidays. The first week is with her kids, the second week the kids are off to their dad. Therefore she wants to spend more quality time with the kids now and possibly me the next week. Will see what happens.
Most importantly: will take this slowly with no expectations (wow more DB stuff). Also will keep working on my DB.