Um, she said you needed marriage counseling badly. She DID tell you. Were you waiting for it to be written across the sky?
I can't speak for SC, but in my case, my W also talked a few times about going to MC. It was always after something had happened that she caused (one example is after she disclosed to me that she had amassed 80k, yes 80k, in credit card debt). The way she presented it to me is that she had done something wrong, she was afraid I would leave, and she was suggesting MC to help us avoid that. Each time I told her "we don't need to do that because I'm not going to leave." In other words, I thought she figured we needed it for ME to get past the wrong. Looking back I think that maybe I misinterpreted what she meant, but the point is, sometimes these things are not as "obvious" as they might sound.
