Originally Posted By: wnycindy
I got the job I wanted! So, I feel a bit more confident about being able to support myself and my daughter. The money is great, but to start it has no benefits or pension. Its a real opportunity though. Im feeling back on track. Proactive.


AWESOME news!! Congrats!!

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Yesturday my husband told me that when he told his family we were divorcing, his sister immediately piped up that I had cheated on him in Paris (she came with) . Thre is NOTHING that could be further than the truth.


Don't start believing any of the junk that comes out of your WAH's mouth now!

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I cannot for the life of me imagine why she would say such a horrible thing, given that we have shared many confidences.


Your H said it. There is no telling what (if anything) she told him, but I would be inclined to dismiss it outright.

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It ended up with me in tears and him name calling me all of the things he always does.


He was calling you names? Because you defended yourself? Welcome to the crazy-train.

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Creating distance just got easier. I dont know today where i want to go with this marriage - but I do know that I am done with this. I dont want this garbage in my life. i am focusing on other healthier things.


Sometimes stuff like this has to happen before the LBS finally learns to detach. You're right, you don't need the garbage. Detach and leave him to his mess.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57