rH, Christmas last year was hard for us in different ways - but look at us now - we both survived and are another year stronger and wiser. I hope this Christmas will be a very special one for you and your family.
Job, you always remind people to live their lives to the fullest - and you are absolutely right. It is difficult at times, especially when the MLCer is acting out during the holidays, to ignore their wackiness and make the most of time with our family and friends. Yet - that is EXACTLY what we need to do.
I love this time of the year, always have, and made the decision that I wasn't going to let my H take that away from me.
I have a feeling that one way or another, 2014 is going to bring some interesting changes to the TVS household
Hope you have a nice holiday job, and maybe even squeeze some time in to watch "The Polar Express" while drinking some hot chocolate
Oh dear Raine... That WAS most definitely one of your finest moments - lol!!!
My H was such an alien last year, his antics really out there. He does seem so much more calm and settled this year. BUT... Still hanging onto his FT lifeline. I'm assuming with both hands, with all of her girth - lol!!
I'm beyond happy for you and all the positive changes that are happening
Hi Jack! I do like the way you think also! If Comet or Blitzen want to drop a steaming load on FT's cabbage patch- like face, well, it certainly would make my days merry and bright
I also like your idea with the cell phone. Here's my idea (kinda borrowed from uRw )
I would love to secretly film his facial expressions while he texting. When this all first started, you should have seen him - smirking and flirting. It was beyond obnoxious!
I haven't seen any of that in a LONG time. Now, it's a serious and sullen face. Sometimes even contemplative.
Seriously, wth????? LOL!!!!
Hello Ruby Thanks for stopping by. Snuggling with the boys always makes me happy. I try to soak up every moment with them, time goes by too fast.
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Nothing really to update here, just busy doing the holiday preparations plus dealing with both boys having ear infections and H spinning MLC holiday style
One interesting thing to note...
I have to tell you all that it has been extremely difficult for me to have to see her at work. Sometimes it really wears on me. I feel like there is no escape - I have to deal with reminders of the affair at home and work.
Just as I see my H be moody, I see it in her too. If I take a step back away from my emotions and get my T2 clipboard out (and maybe even goggles too, safety first!), her behavior is quite strange and interesting.
There are times at work where she seems like she wants me to see her, and will go out of her way to make that happen. There are other times where she will seem to avoid me, turn around and walk the other way when she sees me.
Sometimes she is all smiles, other times looks p!ssed. Go figure.
Anyway, on Friday she called my work phone from hers. I saw her name come up, and I got a bad feeling about it.
I didn't answer.
She tried calling again a few minutes later, and I still didn't answer. I can honestly not think of one work related reason that she would have to call me about.
She's up to something. Just haven't figured out what it is...
That's all for me tonight folks, have a great weekend
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
