Stay strong Medic. Even if the divorce goes through it's just a piece of paper. You seem to have a good grasp of what she needs to see from you so concentrate on doing those things. Smile and hold your head up even when you are hurting. Give yourself permission to take longer than 2 weeks to win her back. Whether or not the divorce goes through you have more time than you think to rebuilld.

Maybe she's second guessing, maybe not. How she feels today won't be how she feels tomorrow, so try not to get caught up in her changes in feelings if you can help it.


BD: Aug 2012
Separated since May 2013
S born Aug 2013
Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out'
H is/was actively seeing someone?