Here what I'm going to do.

I'm going to send her a text Monday evening requesting that I meet her alone at a neutral place. I'm going to ask her if I could take the kids for Christmas Eve right through Christmas face to face.

I asked to speak to her alone before but she didn't want to. She wanted to hear it there and then. I'll risk arguing it in front of the kids.
I figured if I do it at a neutral place, she can't act up. I could control things especially my frustrations.
She can disagree but at least she couldn't turn into a monster in public. I hope.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet