I am trying to cope, still confused. I want to step very carefully, and with forethought. I'm still trying to learn to communicate differently. Eating is an after thought, hard to when stomach is in a huge knot. I do take the vitamins and my prescription.
Yes, I'll continue to do so, and yes the difference can be very interesting.
I have found out that he is being tight lipped with his family. His youngest brother and sister just texted me. I'm getting the distinct feeling they don't know.
The Aunt who sends money, still sent it. The siblings still sent the usual foodstuffs...I'm not sure how to proceed. I just don't believe it is my place to say anything.
I just finished going through years of paperwork, trying to find any current tax returns. I also found some letters where he was glorifying my efforts at research, and home-schooling.
So if by any chance his attorney tries to make me out to be something I was not, it is his words to his Aunt that will come back and show the reality.
I sure found a continuing pattern of him not paying bills, not opening mail. Then him making more money, cleaning up the mess and the whole cycle starting up again.
It is so sad, he really didn't have any coping skills. He needed help, we needed help. <:C
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
