dxw, You are correct we need to DETACH, DETACH, DETACH.

AnotherStander, it crazy how so many of us have similar situation/stories. I read other peoples stitches and I would have thought I wrote it myself. Thanks for your feedback.

advina, As usual thanks for putting it Bluntly. I really need that sometime.

Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14