Thanks Job, it does help to clarify, I DON'T want to come off as a MOTHER. EEEEEK! I ask for your feedback because I appreciated it , and of course I'm second guessing myself lately.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay