Hey Pampkin, I can see you've got all kinds of things swirling in your mind. Take a deep breath and know that there is actually a lot of hope for you. How he feels right now isn't as set in stone as you think. Just let his words roll off your back and get to work on you.
Have you read the books yet? What are you doing to GAL? What are you doing to be a spouse he'd be a fool to leave?
Also, instead of trying to put space between you, why not use your work time to show him how awesome you are? Put on a smiley face, give him lots of space, and find something interesting to keep yourself busy with while he sorts through his feelings.
Keep posting, moderation doesn't last forever.
BD: Aug 2012 Separated since May 2013 S born Aug 2013 Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out' H is/was actively seeing someone?
