I have a WAS as well, and like you, I have no idea why she does the things she does. I'm not good at letting it go either, I want to know why and what's going on. I think the real answer is that they don't even know what's going on or what they want.
I don't recognize my WAS either. That's a pretty common trait, that they are "alien" to us. I would imagine to some extent they don't recognize us either. How much more awesome have you become since the BD? I was a crying, sniveling, depressed mess. Now I'm going to church, lost weight, looking good, self-confident. To some extent, maybe she does not recognize you for similar reasons?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
