my W does the same thin. before she left the house, she started making coffee for me in the mornings again. it was a familiar pattern after we would "do our dance". I extended a hand by calling her a day later to offer and bring a sandwich to her work and share it. she said no thanks. then she got mad at me that evening because I "just don't understand how busy she is and should not have felt hurt"....

If you're not married and he's treating you like that, its not cool in my book


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14