Job, I have followed along with you for some time and respect many of your insights but I am disappointed in your tone here. After so many years, why care so much?
I guess I would say that at this point, what happens to X really doesn't concern me, whether it involves OW or not. That is my attempt to release.
The thing is, his reality will be his reality, and you can call Karma and say life is teaching a lesson or whatever, but really, in his mind it's still going to be that he did the right things.
To me, feeling gleeful about an X's misfortune so many years later will bring only negative karma onto you.
After this many years, whatever.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D