I really don't understand him. I have been really busy and playing it cool. No initiating and he contacts me. The other night texting me that he misses me. He asked if I work on Sunday (my bday) and I just found out yesterday that I do not. So I texted him to day so. He said great and invited me to his parents house for an early Christmas. I said yes. Then I texted him to see if he wanted to grab a beer when I got off work. He never answered me. I don't understand him. Maybe I shouldn't go tomorrow. Maybe I should make something up that came up. Maybe I shouldn't have texted about the beer. But he said he missed me. I am so sick of this. Why is he stringing me along inviting me here and there and then ignoring me? Part of me wishes he would just end it already, his lack of interest is so hurtful. What kind of relationship does he think we have? He obviously didn't plan anything for my bday. He did invite me last minute to his parents. I don't know what to do. It's my bday tomorrow and maybe I should just be with people who always want to be with me, not just when it's convenient for them.
Feeling irritated.


Me:35
BF:36
Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13
still "together" but not together.
Confused.
D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)