Also, the way you had the sentence worded about the mortgage is more like a mother telling her son not to default and then you are telling him to rectify the situation and keep it current. They do not like to be told what to do and this may push him to go ahead w/his plans of defaulting.
I thought by saying " please " I was asking. I agree with the working together part, but at this point I cannot. No money. Is there an alternative reason for your wording on this?
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I have to accept that these are your decisions at this time
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Share with me why you chose those words?
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If you are planning to give gifts to our family and friends, would you please add my name on the gift tags as well? I would appreciate it if you would do this for me this year.
I placed your name on the gifts to your siblings. ( That's what I did )
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You are welcome to come by and visit w/your daughters during Christmas.
Wow! Help me understand your thought process on this. It does sound abrupt. " visit ", and "your daughters ". Is this the intent? It would come across unwelcoming to me, almost angry. Is this the point? Or am I reading more into it? Is it meant to make him think about something?
