Made the mistake of googling H's common username. Up he popped on a site dedicating songs to OW. My heart dropped to my stomach, I felt sick, and then I stopped, stepped back and read it like the mature 43 year old I am. wink That's when I started laughing, it was like something my 16 year old nephew would write! I knew he had acted like an adolescent boy in a rage when angry but this showed me he is truly not himself. He's back to his teenage years when it all went to heck in a hand basket. When he got his gf pregnant and instead of letting him step up and do what was right his dad wanted to control everything and he never had a relationship with his child until she was a teenager. His dad killed himself a few months later and I'm sure H blames himself.

Never going to let on that I know about OW, just let it play out. She seems as damaged as he is.

I'm off to finish Christmas shopping and spend time with my friends from college. GAL, girl!


H-44
Me-43
D9
T-13 years
M-12 years
BD-8/21/13
Sep- 11/19/13
D in process