Hey HWA Yay! Go you As you may or may not know I'm thinking of standing down as well from my marriage. I realised today that even though the hug from the decorator isn't going to go anywhere, he awakened feelings inside me that I've not experienced for years. I'm sure that you feel the same and I don't mean the lustful feelings either lol. Anyway, I'm really pleased for you and yes you're right, if your W can spend that kind of money on a settlement then she has moved on at the mo. If she does come out of this MLC/WAS eventually, well then it's her loss. I'm sure these MLCers can still work at their M whilst they are going through the crisis, with the help and support of their spouse. I've known women who have gone through the change and are still with their original partner. Anyone who gives up on their M that easily deserves all they get. Being a Christian I have forgiven my H, but I still feel he's moved on and even though it's only been 8 months then I feel that I'm ready to move on as well. Anyway glad you're doing great HWA and I look forward to hearing more of these updates
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
As you may or may not know I'm thinking of standing down as well from my marriage. I realised today that even though the hug from the decorator isn't going to go anywhere, he awakened feelings inside me that I've not experienced for years. I'm sure that you feel the same and I don't mean the lustful feelings either lol.