Wow, you've been going through this for a very long time. My hugs go out to you!

Its hard to keep talking to friends and family because after so long its like they just want to all say "Ok, we've heard enough now move on already"
It can be frustrating at times.

Me: 31 H: 32
Married 10 years, together 11
No kids
H moved out to an apt 8-3-13

Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis