No death for my H's trigger that I know of.

I believe it was a combo of:

- turning 40

- quitting his second job - a job that he loved - after almost 20 years - to spend more time at home (how's that for irony?)

- his health issues took a turn for the worse

So while no one died, he talked a lot about dying. How he knew he would die before me and that he was living on borrowed time.

His health problems are serious and chronic. He has told me numerous times he knows he needs to figure out how to deal with them.

Is he? Good question...

Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."