I might just have succeeded in pi..ing of both W and XW1 today!

Convo with W is above! It speaks for itself!

I just poured myself a big glass of red wine and while sitting here thinking I remember that I got a ltter from state today. I have (on purpose) been paying XW1 too much child support for a long time but this D costs so in the summer I called XW1 and told her I wanted it reduced. She agreed for a week and the she disagreed and told me to go through the channels at State/Gov. After waiting 6-7 months they reduced it and I received the letter today. They cut it in half! My initial proposal was around 75%.
I will call XW1 tomorrow and have a talk…my goal is that I can settle both things quickly. XW1 is coming over for dinner on 22. and W on 23. for the whole afternoon. I feel like fixing things for both of them while writing this and it will be hard for me not to reach out and help them find the best solution.

I still feel quite well and on top of things. I have the food, the presents and everything ready for a nice Christmas. This is the children’s and my time and THAT will have to be my focus!

Just need to find the tree smile

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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