13 Is Not My Lucky Number

[RedHawk98]

During her holiday I developed a clear head, and decided that I couldn't play her game any longer.
I wrote to tell her that I knew why she left.
She responded with an email that featured a twisted and exaggerated rewrite of our rough times together. She also told me that she would file the divorce papers when she could find the time (I have heard that line for 6 months now).
I saw this for what it was. Justification of her EA/PA with her boss.

I replied with the cold, hard fact that I SAW the messages on her phone and computer. There was no need to lie and hide anymore. That I forgave her.

I got no reply.
I wrote to her family to say thank you and goodbye. I then wrote and said that I would take care of the divorce as she never has time.
No response.
Two weeks later, I asked if I could ask her a few details to process this divorce.
No response.

I can't decide if this divorce is a hollow threat to make the last few changes in my life that she hasn't seen yet.
Or if she is just burying her head in the sand at the reality of it all.