"Yes! It is hard because you can't complain, whine, seem controlling, talk about your R or your future, or ask any questions about your WAS."
Is that really what you talked about when you first met your spouse for the first time? Of course not. You started with something small and then let it go from there. I would hope that if you met someone new, that you wouldn't be talking about these things on your first date.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
